bit worrid

[jimmy_t693]

alrite... :confused:

got a bit of a problm cos i met a gril at a house partty over new years eve n we both go preetty drunk (my freinds brother got us a keg!!! ) an made out. we ended up fukin on my freinds moms bed :D n im pretty sure we ddnt us ea condom...:eek:

herad later frm my freind that shes fukked a coupla guys before bt im kinda worrid...:(

anyone help????

[DrGreen]

Aaaah Jimmy. The joyous world of promiscuous unprotected sex with all it's highs and lows strikes another victim.

Okay, long word rubbish over with ;) Much as it'll scare the crap out of you to do it, you need to go see your doctor. Your parents should have the number if you don't yourself (word of advice to everyone, get your doctor's number on your own phone as soon as you can, you never know) and see him. Explain EVERYTHING - you'll probably be really nervous and scared about it right? Well he (or she) can't tell anyone else anything you say to them, even your Mum and Dad. It's called Doctor-Patient confidentiality and basically it means your doctor will be banned from being a doctor if they breathe a word of what you tell them to anyone else. Alright?

The fact she's had sex before is a double edged sword - means she's quite possibly on some form of contraceptive medication so you're unlikely to have got her pregnant, which is pretty bloody handy. On the down side it makes her that much more likely to have a sexually transmitted disease.

Sad truth of STDs is that the more obvious ones to see symptoms of tend to be the less nasty ones. Really try not to worry about it, if you've caught something it'll hopefully be of the "annoying but temporary" variety and either way there's nothing much you can do about it now. I know it's hardly a comforting argument, but don't worry about something you can't do anything about. Get checked out, learn your lesson and hope that you've dodged the bullet this time. You might not be so lucky if you try your luck again.

On the plus side, New Year's Eve party with a keg? Awesome ;) I just had a few mates over for food and beers - we did crash through something like 30 cold ones so pretty good progress.

Try to get the right forum next time matey :P and slow down with the typing, I know you're worried, but if you've got a spelling problem just cheat and use a spellchecker :D

[Mayu_bt]

Some times things go off hand. You both were drunk & 'it' happened the way it happened!

Your friend introduced you both to each other right? assuming that the same friend told you that she has had sex with few others, assuming that you had sex on the same friend's mom's bed, this whole thing is FRAMED by YOUR so called friend!!

............. ha ha just kidding! :) don't worry dude.. but make sure you get yourself checked on all kinds of sexually transmitted diseases!

BE CAREFUL henceforth. ;)

Just to overcome your anxiety.. I suggest you to be in touch with her atleast on phone or in some way to know more about her.. if at all she is sooooo loose on bed!! or just kind of lose herself when drunk!! :) orrr is she always drunk !? hehe

And lastly to avoid any comments on your spell mistakes use latest version of mozilla firefox browser which has an inbuilt spell check feature!! :)

I think spelling is not sooo very important factor in forms of this kind where one should be focused on the content and the message rather than spellings as far as one can understand what the word/sentence really means!!

[jimmy_t693]

alrite, ive got myself a apptment at teh docs tmrow, bit worried my momz gunna find uot tho. gess Ive just gotta go for it rite?

[DrGreen]

Just do your best to avoid your mum (sorry, but I can't drop the English spelling) knowing, there's not much else you can do. Get in to the doctor's office, tell them everything relevant and just try to be as open as possible. At the end of the day, the doctor IS trying to help you, and the more information the doctor has, the more they can help.

[blonda80]

jimmy_t693 you did a stupid thing by not using a condom but I understand your desire ;) When I am getting hot I forget about the condom too, but I won`t recommand this ever :( This is crazy!
PS: Don`t forget to tell us more about your experience with that girl :D