Worried about premature ejaculation

[Iloveguitar]

I admit it, I'm an 18 year old virgin lol. I'm a little worried about the first time I have sex (which could quite possibly be soon). When I'm just plain masterbating I can last a half hour if I try really hard, or just go 20 seconds when I really don't feel like masterbating but need to haha. Is it normal to be able last so short?

Also in a quest to try something new I bought a Jenna Haze pussy, gotta love Jenna Haze :) This is where I got really worried. I can't last at all in that thing. There's this textured inside that just won't stop rubbing at the head of my penis and I can't hold it in. Is it just that these toys are designed to be pleasurable and I can't last in it, or should I be worried when I get a real one?

This is really bothering me, and getting me nervous for my first time. I don't want to be a complete flop, I want to make my girlfriend happy. I'd appreciate any advice.

[dog1runner]

when you fill like you are going to cum stop for a little bit and eat her out then go again if you try you can go all night like this

[Razor]

If you want to last longer when you feel you are about to cum change position, think about something other than sex for a minute (the mind is a very important sex organ), eat her pussy, this things will give you a chance to relax and cool yourself down; the best idea it is before you start fucking her eat her pussy until she cums, then no matter what happens, she has been satisfied. also work her until she is ready, some guys rush in, and it is their lost, because you will be ready to cum before she even gets wet. Try to make her cum before you, let her ride you, she will find her "G" spot faster than you, some girls are more clit girls than "g" spot girls, work that clit. The clit wants to be touch, lick, caress and rub, use your fingers, tongue and cock to caress the clit.

Always remember to work the whole body: The back of her neck, her nipples, her back, her legs, her fingers,everything, Give her a tongue bath from top to bottom.
:D I like to treat them like "M&M"; I like them to melt in my mouth and not my hands

[blonda80]

Razor, your post made me so wet!!!
PS: I love M&Ms :) but being treated like them... mmm.. sounds so exciting!
Nice comparing:D

[options]

Most successful ways to delay ejaculation .. when u feel u'r about to cum try one or more of this ways:
-Think of anyting else but sex.
-Count down from 100:50 or 0 in ur mind.
-Make her above .. she rides u.
-Press that part down next the head of ur penis .. press it a little bit hard using ur forefinger & thumb it will work & she can do it for u.
And by time u will be ok & getting used to do it longer.
i heared that doctors of USA are working on a new cure 4 this problem its effective and the new about it that its almost has no side effects..will be released next Oct as they said.
But i think after all some women are very hot and makes it hard 4 you to control the mind to control the ejaculation espically at the first time to enter them..
Regards :)

[Kodoku]

I guess it's up to me to fill in the holes on this advice.

1) Foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. You need to get her turned on enough before you get started so she can have as much of a chance as you at orgasm. The nipples, clitoris, and the areas where the crotch meets the thighs are all nice, sensitive, non-vaginal places to get started.

2) Condoms. Condoms aren't all just about protection, there are kinds out there that are "ribbed for her pleasure". They also lower your sensitivity somewhat and slow down your time to orgasm. Be sure to use them properly by stretching some off of the tip of your penis before using it (That skeet has to go somewhere). Use a good condom, too. Trojans have an "extra ribbed" variety in a brown box.

3) Keep up the assault. Few things frustrate a woman more than a man who quits after the first time. Women tend to "stay on" rather than turn off like men do. If you don't feel like you can quite get it up for a little while, take the previous suggestion of eating her out, or anything else to keep her turned on while you get ready (Or just bring her to another orgasm if you don't have enough left in you for another go)

[a2112]

first off if you are looking for a long night dont go in loaded let it out before hand and give some time to rejuvenate...FOREPLAY thats the best way to make it last a long time not so much for you but she will be very satsfied and you will get your fun too and if she comes then all you gotta do is take care of yourself at that point always try to please her though since this makes sex just so much better for the guy women that have been satisfied are much more into it than ones that havent been ive found.

I personally lasted about 30 seconds the first time i was with a girl lol we were just really horney and she had been teasing me all night so i was already ready to go when we got to it. however i might have lasted only a short time the first time but i also went 3 more times that night...so bring extra condoms never just bring one.

[whois]

all good advice but no one has mentioned the most important thing. if you simply can't hold it then go ahead & cum. just don't stop after you do. who says only women are allowed to have multiple o's? you are a young man it wont take long till you hard again. it takes longer to cum the second, third, fourth.... times. she will love it

[tamukid]

I agree. just let it go. there is no reason to be in pain

[treesgothigh]

always catch dome first because then she swallows or spits out your precum:D

[joeytpg]

kegel exercises my friend....google it.... I've never been the same after trying them.

[blonda80]

you did exercises joey? how are those? please explain here don`t make us enter on bogus sites :)

[joeytpg]

Haven't you heard of Kegel exercises blonda? c'mon girl....i though you were a wild sexual creature!...........I'm disappointed!



Kegel exercises are great for stregthening the PC muscles (these are the muscles that you squeeze when you want to stop the urine while peeing)

The exercises will make those muscle fit, and when you feel like cummin' you just have to squeeze them and the cummin sensation will stop, WITHOUT you loosing the erection AT ALL.......you can do this everytime you feel you're about to cum. with this you'll last AS LONG AS YOU WANT ;)


for he exercises perse, just google it.

FUN TIP? girls can do them too...... making their man, a VERY HAPPY man! :D

[blonda80]

well i don`t have a cock to be interested in these exercises. and if the cock i am riding is having problems i am fixing them with an old but efficient stuff. ride it as much as i can. so i use exercises too lol :)

[bluewizard]

I thought riding would make you want to cum more considering she's in control of the action and not you? I am a virgin as well so I'm intersted in this thing as well. How much do those fake pussies cost? I'd like to get one myself sometime. I can masturbate for about 2 hours at most, usually to this site. lol I can't do it consecutively tohugh otherwise I'd probably blow after 10 minutes.

[blonda80]

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feels like a real pussy :p
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xo

[Texasdude]

Dude, You need to stop jerking the Johnson. If you keep jacking off #1 You will train you body to cum faster and you will lose stamina.
#2 You will not learn to communicate with Girls because you are pleasing yourself. When you have blue balls you are motivated to get some coochie. When you are motivated to get coochie you work learn to communicte with a woman. Sex is 100 comunication. You wil not learn how to communicate with Ladies if you are choking the chicken. Talk to them all. Don't worry about being a dork. You will be untill you learn how to talk with them. Talking with them = pussy. That's the formual. Its the way they are wired and you have to do it thery're way. ( always let them know they are sexy and you want the coochie just, say it in a nice way.) If you masterbate you will teach your body bad habbits. Don't be a dud , be a stud. Besides, some Gal's like to fuck a funny dork. Beleave me, I was as awkward and as uncomfortable as they came. You have to learn to be sexy. Blue balls motivate. Dont be a Jerk off , Loozer.
Texas Dude

[lv2showmine]

well i don`t have a cock to be interested in these exercises. and if the cock i am riding is having problems i am fixing them with an old but efficient stuff. ride it as much as i can. so i use exercises too lol :)
Blonda, sexy thing...kegels are for women too... Kegels are the muscle you use when you need to stop the urine flow. You can also do them just sitting around the house. I've had four kids, and am still (almost) as tight as a virgin because I do them multiple times a day. They also help me to be multi-orgasmic.... You should try them... they're awesome.

For the young man worried about his first time... you could do yourself before you do her... before the sex starts that is... That way, you've already gotten a release, and can last longer with her. I don't know of any man that doesn't last longer the second time around in the same night... :) All the other suggestions are great too. :)

All you guys are great for wanting to help a "brother" out...makes me think good thoughts about all of you, that aren't just sexual... :) (Guys have feelings too, right??) LOL Kisses to all you wonderfully helpful, horny guys AND gals...

[GRABADEW]

the best part is going for round 2.

[Tx4_56]

You're 18, don't worry about it. If you cum after 20 seconds, keep it in, slow down a bit, then build back up. You'll probably cum a 2nd time 5 minutes later. At 18, you'll stay hard and should be able to come several times. Premature ejac is only a problem when you get older, when after 1 pop you go limp and basically you're done.

[E.Sel]

Don't worry. When you get used to it, everything will be ok.

[Hung]

Hmm all of these are good ideas and i've tried them all. I have this cute little dog named Max and i'll imagine him dead on the side of the road gotten hit by a car. He's like my best buddy. =(. But when you think about that, your cock goes numb pretty much and you can pound as hard as you want and be having her screaming your name. I've went for an hour before almost non-stop except for a few position changes - works like a charm. ;)