P@rn 4 Marriage?

[BoxOpener]

Would you say it brings the couple closer together or the very opposite?

[DrGreen]

I actually have no idea what you're actually trying to ask here...

I mean really, are you saying "does porn bring a couple together?", "does marriage bring a couple together?", given "porn 4 marriage" I could probably stretch to "does porn before marriage bring a couple together?" or potentially I'm wondering whether you're considering the merits and pitfalls of a porn-marriage, like some sort of theme of getting all the guests to turn up naked and covered in make-up and starting bonking in the pews.

[BoxOpener]

I actually have no idea what you're actually trying to ask here...

I mean really, are you saying "does porn bring a couple together?", "does marriage bring a couple together?", given "porn 4 marriage" I could probably stretch to "does porn before marriage bring a couple together?" or potentially I'm wondering whether you're considering the merits and pitfalls of a porn-marriage, like some sort of theme of getting all the guests to turn up naked and covered in make-up and starting bonking in the pews.

Chill out my friend! A married couple may enhance its sex life with porn, and some say it is a good thing other a bad :)

[DrGreen]

Aaaaah, okay. Makes a lot more sense now. It really depends on the couple. It can inspire some pretty steamy sex for a happy couple, but at the same time it might well make either (or both) partners feeling a bit inadequate - I know I'm not as well endowed as most pornstars!

The other risk is that it can drive a wedge between the partners if one picks up a fetish that the other is less keen on, especially if this fetish includes third parties of any sort.

But it's not like you can just rule out the idea that porn can be good for a couple - I never shared any with my last girlfriend and we broke up, so perhaps it's exactly what the relationship needed, seems unlikely though ;)

[BoxOpener]

Aaaaah, okay. Makes a lot more sense now. It really depends on the couple. It can inspire some pretty steamy sex for a happy couple, but at the same time it might well make either (or both) partners feeling a bit inadequate - I know I'm not as well endowed as most pornstars!

The other risk is that it can drive a wedge between the partners if one picks up a fetish that the other is less keen on, especially if this fetish includes third parties of any sort.

But it's not like you can just rule out the idea that porn can be good for a couple - I never shared any with my last girlfriend and we broke up, so perhaps it's exactly what the relationship needed, seems unlikely though ;)

Good point, what if different p@rn styles are liked ;)

[Mayu_bt]

I think.... Porn before marriage is a MUST but after marriage its a DON'T. ;)

[BoxOpener]

I think.... Porn before marriage is a MUST but after marriage its a DON'T. ;) How is that? For man and/or woman?? :)

[Mayu_bt]

How is that? For man and/or woman?? :)

Yups for both!...When one is not married, he/she will not be committed on any one person and so has the leverage to experiment or think of experimenting multiple partners or even fascinate about BDSM etc. Sex and its variations are a lot fun with GF & sex partners. Bcoz one is neither committed nor expects commitment from partner. Porn before marriage makes a person know different flavors of love making & sex which is very important before marriage.

But when one is married its a different story! let us first ask "WHY DO ONE MARRY?" if one can answer this question... then every thing would be understood. A married person watching Porn of any kind would make that person to expect more from the partner & try different variations(group etc.) which would ultimately spoil the relationship and life partner would remain only a sex partner and nothing more.

Porn increases sexual anxiety, sexual thirst and this is not good when one is married because marriage is more than just sex.

I have seen many couples swapping/sharing their life partners.. a few words for them....Marriage is an institution and one marries to have a family and family has *****ren and as parents, its ones responsibility to give a good example to them more than anything else.

One should not put marriage in sex but put sex in marriage. One should not marry for wrong reasons.

I think its too much of a dose! :)

[irishsince81]

Wow, Deep honesty, Awesome! I agree especially about being a positive role model for your *****ren and not getting married for the wrong reasons.

[LakotaWarrior]

Erotic movies with a plot (aka "soft porn"), or movies showing erotic massage, can be a good way of creating an erotic mood with a married couple once in awhile.

While hardcore porn movies can also add an erotic mood for a married couple, after awhile just watching a constant pumping scene can get boring and lead to a turn-off, rather than a turn-on, IMHO

[Mystica]

i will only get girlfriend that would watch porn with me :)

[lovefortheloveless]

I actually won't like watching porn with my g/f. Weird, but I can't explain why....

[Bethany]

Depends on the people. Im female and love porn, i love watching porn with a significant other. I think its up to two main things:
1. if both people like/support porn
and
2. if you both are willing to be together when you watch it.

If neither mind, in think its steamy and hot.:o